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June 03, 2023 3 min read 211 Comments

The worst thing you can do is not talk about sex. That silence will not only harm your sexuality but will also slam the breaks on intimacy. Discussing sex should be as pleasurable as the act itself. So why not make talking about sex a game?

7 Sex Questions To Ask Your Partner

First off, the best time to play the sex question game is when you have your partner's undivided attention. So wait for a quiet time alone together before you get naked (metaphorically and literally).

Start with the lighter questions and work your way up to heavier ones. And if you are in a new relationship, you might want to save those childhood trauma questions and kinkier confessions for a later date.

What do you wish I would do more of?

In every relationship, there's always room for even hotter sex. The problem with wanting to improve your sex life is you must tread carefully with negative questions such as — "What am I not doing or what am I doing wrong?" That sounds critical. So not fun.

Instead, frame the question with a "more" instead of a "not" to keep the discussion positive. Maybe you give great oral, but your partner wishes it was more frequent. Or perhaps you have a favorite position that isn't making it into the rotation enough.

What are you most grateful for in our sex life?

We all know that gratitude is the key to any successful relationship, but sometimes we expect sex and then take our partner for granted.

Name your biggest turn-off and your biggest turn-on.

This question doesn't necessarily have to include a sexual act. It could be loud chewing or people not returning their grocery cart. So many people forget that sex begins the moment your partner walks through the door. Part two of this question is to ask your partner how they turn themselves on. What you do to relax your partner and what your partner does is not always the same.

What is your secret erogenous zone that isn't your genitals?

Everyone has weird sexual quirks. Maybe she gets aroused by you kissing her neck, or he gets turned on by you rubbing his ear lobes. Either way, you should probably ask this question earlier in the relationship because it will be harder for your partner to confess it later. Many of us get embarrassed by our idiosyncrasies.

What part of your body do you most love? What part of your body do you feel insecure about?

Unless you are a raging narcissist or a supermodel, most people have parts of their body they love and parts they wish were a little firmer. We most desire the people who make us feel desired despite our flaws.

What fantasy do you love to dream about but would not necessarily do?

You never know, your crazy fantasy might be something your partner is willing to try. But you still have an escape clause by putting it in the “just fun to fantasize about” box.

This question is also a good opener to talk about porn. Many people find porn harmful because it feeds into unattainable fantasies. But really, it depends on whether you maintain a healthy relationship with your fantasies.

Overall, it’s better to have the porn talk with your lover now than to feel intimidated by their fantasies later. Remember that fantasies are often just a way to act out our desires in a safe space.

What sexual act have you not done, but you want to try?

This is a variation of the above question, but this question addresses fantasies you want to happen and not ones that are just fun to imagine.

Remember that this is a very intimate question, so please no judgment. Nothing kills trust in a relationship more than feeling judged for your desires.

So many couples fear stagnancy in their sex life, but this only becomes a monster under the bed if you don't address it. For example, maybe you have younger children or a big work project, so your sex life has slowed down. It's not a problem if you understand that it is a temporary state and then take the steps to fix it.

Humans are built for novelty. It is why the best lovers are curious lovers. So always stay curious.

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